Your Messenger message:

"sir Tony magandang araw po. may nagpapatanong po na katrabaho ko patungkol po sa kanyang panaginip. ito po yung sinabi niya -

"Sa panaginip ko, nawawala ang asawa ko for 3 days. Hinahanap ko siya nireport ko na sa pulis hanggang sa sinabi ko na sa daddy ko na nawawala na siya for 3days. After that, may nagbalita sa amin na may nakita na bangkay ng isang lalaki. Umiyak na ako ng umiyak. Nakita ko na sa bangkay na naagnas na siya. May damo na green na green. Nakatihaya na lang siya.. tapos suot na nang bangkay yung polo ng asawa ko na checkered. Hindi naman naconfirm sa panaginip ko na siya yun. Nag assume ako nang magising ako."

"maraming salamat po"


My reply:

Hello ______!

The dreamer's husband is currently undergoing a major change in his life, entailing an overhaul of values and perhaps the risk of living a different lifestyle. It is an anxiety dream insofar as the dreamer fears losing her husband because of this change.

My advice to the dreamer follows:

1) Do not over-control your spouse. He needs space in order to be creative and progressive.

2) If you love your husband, adapt to the change he is undergoing, while remaining communicative, as a form of being supportive.

3) You need to be sensitive to what your husband feels and wants, and these may not necessarily conform to your expectations.

4) Explore your husband's real self--what he showed you before and after he married you and what he wants to be now. Sometimes, when the honeymoon is over (and even years after that) a woman realizes that she did not marry the man she thought she did.