"Should be like this but how come im always bothered about what the others might thinking,saying about me?Is there a something wrong about me?Is it something rooted from my younger years?Sometimes I could say i know and aware things are,why and what. But when it comes to other ppl thoughts, i always being affected.I should have instead be more focus and sensitive in my relationship to my wife.Thats why i message you _____..What do you think?"
My reply:
Everyone has paranoid feelings, most of which should be ignored. You tend to amplify them rather than ignore them. Such feelings are typically amplified when one is in a foreign country, because one lives as a minority and frequently experiences discrimination.
Just go with the flow. You are the foreigner. You are the one who should adjust. You are fortunate to have a loving wife whose support and comfort you can come home to every evening.
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