Your e-mail message:

"Sir Tony,

"Hope you could do interpreation in my...dream episodes.

"Scenario 1

"We were in a white montero driven by one of our resigned avps in the company it was night time and rainy (We were in an express way however I do not know where). I know I was with my girlfriend in the car and suddenly in a flash I was with my Mom in ______ (_________) Jeep terminal. I was texting it to her that we were already there and asked her "kamusta si Ate ___)"-her cousin who's abroad.

"Scenario 2

"I riding a bike (Im not so sure where we were biking, at first it looked like alabang, the bike was my old red bike bought by my parents for me when I was 10 yrs old) and then I picked up A. (pretty girl, one of my batchmates in college) she was riding at my back (angkas). We we're seen by what I think was my current officemate G., riding a silver Innova. As I turned the corner I scratched a car with the front wheel of my bike (dark blue car seemed like a first generation toyota altis, scratch mark i made was yellow). Owner was not there so I continued. I was asking A. if the was okay and told me that she is but mentioned that her belly is perspiring, it was the first body part that was perspiring for her everytime. After the perspiration, it was falling hair etc. Suddenly I was alone and off the bike then in the tricycle terminal in _________. I was going to my old school. After riding the tricycle I was in the cat walk of my old school, I saw the gate for the vehicles was open, I ran and entered the gate hence entering the school grounds. The guard from the student entrance gate whistled prompting the other guard to stop me. The guard from the student entrance approached me and he had this insulting face saying something like hindi diyan yung tamang pasukan lumabas ka ulit at pumasok dun sa kabila. The other guard seemed to not agree and already allow me in. After hearing his remark, I was pissed off. I threw my ID at the guard and it almost hit him in the face. His jacket fell to the wet ground and he complained. After which I told him, sige para matahimik ka, lalabas ako at papasok sa kabila, in an angry tone. So I did. After going inside the student entrance, I saw Aiza and I angrily told her what transpired. I noted that the campus was my old campus in _________________ School in _________, the silver innova was there, but instead of G., he became J., one of my high school friends and batchmate. It was how it looked way back when I was in elementary.

"Sir hope you could find time to help interpret this.

"Regards,

"M.N."

My reply:

Hello M.N.!

In both dreams, you are in/on moving vehicles. This indicates to me that, at this particular time in your life, you are in a state of major transition--in your relationship, in your job, or in terms of your values. While you favor this transition, you find that it upsets others (you scratch another person's car, you argue with a guard because you were not careful to follow rules). Both dreams also indicate that you still have a lot to learn, because the second dream ends in your old school and a co-workers morphs into a high school classmate. Any dream set in a school means that there are lessons that have not been learned. Your values are still deeply rooted in your younger years, you remain fixated on them, and you therefore are having difficulty managing your transition.

When dreams come in two or three parts, know that each part means exactly what the other parts also do. They are variations of a theme, as in music or in painting.

I will not tell you how I arrived at the following, but, please, consider these:

--Are you afraid that your girlfriend is pregnant?

--Is it not so that your mother does not approve of your girlfriend?

--Is it not so that you frequently hurt your girlfriend and have little respect for her?

Try to resolve what seem to be the simplest problems in your life before initiating major changes, before wanting to move on. Otherwise you might merely be, as the saying goes, jumping from the frying pan into the fire.